5 WAYS ERECTION PROBLEM CAN AFFECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Men are frequently unwilling to discuss their Erection problem|

Sexual intimacy is a significant part of a marriage or long-term relationship. Any change in frequency could make the couples uncomfortable or anxious. Marriage relationships can be incredibly enjoyable when couples love themselves and enjoy open communication and unfettered sexual intimacy. However, if the man has trouble achieving an erection, it can be very stressful for everyone involved. 

Unfortunately, men are frequently unwilling to discuss their Erection problem.  They feel  ashamed and sometimes perceive themselves to be less masculine.

It worth noting that numerous factors, such as hormonal imbalance, a reduction in the blood circulation to the penis, and psychological factors like stress and worry, can contribute to erectile dysfunction.

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The impact of erection problem in a relationship

The impact of erectile dysfunction in a relationship is far-reaching. For men and their partners, ED is a common source of anxiety and depression that can seriously impair their health and relationships. Additionally, ED may lead to a decrease in emotional and physical intimacy, which lessens marital satisfaction. Below are some specific ways, it impacts relationship.

1. It  can erode a man’s self worth

Erection problem can be unsettling or even disastrous to the man. This is because  most men typically perceive having an erection as a symbol of masculinity and feels bitterly upset and emasculated whenever they are unable to obtain one on demand.

Erection problem can erode a man’s self worth and may severely undermine  his relationship and mental health. 

2. It causes a man to become terrified during intimate moments.

When a man experiences  erectile dysfunction, there’s a high probability that anxiety and self-consciousness will set in, and this will  negatively affect his self-confidence, sex life. The fear of erectile dysfunction reoccurring will worsen his problem.The dilemma in this situation is that the more  the man  focus on your perceived problem, the more likely it is that they will come up again. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

3. It can push a men away from his bedroom

At the beginning of this problem, for fear of experiencing disappointment at not getting or maintaining an erection on demand, some men may wish to conceal it by avoiding intimacy with their spouses.

Others may use the thin excuse of meeting deadlines to work late into the night just to avoid the bedroom and intimacy with their spouses.

4. It can lead to estrangement and emotional distance

When  some  man are having erectile dysfunction and they  to most times try to conceal it from his wife by avoiding sexual intimacy. But doing so, they  create emotional distance  which may lead to suspicion, distrust and could even  push the other partner to seek intimacy elsewhere.

5. It  can produce self-doubt in a woman and ultimately lead to relationship breakdown

If a man who is experiencing erectile problem begins to avoid his partner,  ignore or overlook  her sexual need, over time  she may even begin to think that  she has lost her attractiveness. In extreme circumstances, she might even begin to suspect that he is having an affair, and this can lead to the breakdown of a relationship.

How  can spouse mitigate these  effects?

Although erection problem is a  delicate subject to discussed, here are some suggestions how spouse can work together to mitigate it effect in their relationship. :

Open Communication

Although erectile problem can be frustrating for partners, and a very  difficult topic for couples to discuss,  open communication remains  the most effective way of relieving the stress associated with it and also finding possible causes and solutions.

We encourage men to be open to their partners about their sexual function conditions in order to avert unnecessary marital issues.

So, rather than pretending or hiding under the guise of being tired because you are overworked at your office, please make out time and have a candid conversation with your partner about your sexual function problem.

You don’t have to shy away from it. Find a suitable place where you and your partner can talk about this problem.

Remind him of your support

Spouse  should remind their affected partner  that they are not alone in this; there are a countless number of men who suffer from erectile dysfunction.

We know that for some men acknowledging that you have a problem is hard, but it’s a very important step to finding a solution to this problem.

You should know that your partner feels as much pain and frustration about your sexual function problem as you.

Communication is essential for fostering emotional closeness between you, which can improve your sex life.

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Seek Medical Help Early

Erectile dysfunction is generally curable. Being open and seeking early help is very important. A variety of efficient treatments can improve sexual function, boosting marital pleasure.

Your physician can explain the available options to you, and it is very rewarding when you visit your physician with your spouse.